Clubs, Colorism, and Cheating: The Truth Nobody Talks About

Join Lemmy G @ChafuwaMeza with guest Tee as we discuss on what is happening in today's world. Tee is born and raised right here in North Carolina US. She comes from a good family, and she is well mannered. The issues that seem to be happening in our society and we seem to differ is what happened to our nightlife's. I remember back in the day we used to look forward to the weekends just to step out and go mingle with other single people in the clubs. We used to dress to impress because we wanted to look good for the women and also stand out when you are with your friends. The females did the same thing and brought good energy with them. A man would have easily walked up to a female ask for a dance and it wouldn't be an issue at all. The girl would accept the nice gesture and make her way to the dancing floor. Fast forward to now days where even Tee says she is confused with what is going on in this night clubs. Tee suggests she might tolerate a guy for a quick five minutes, maybe do the two steps with the guy and then she walks away. Ideally that might make sense if you are in a relationship, but single people where are you away to? Tee claims she doesn't come to the clubs to meet men to date them or for them to take her out. She also claims she doesn't seem to notice any favors she might be getting due to her skin complexion. Colorism seems to be an issue in our society and unfortunately, it's not addressed as much or brought to light to receive more attention as it's supposed to. A lot of black females with darker skin tone seems to be overlooked or look down upon due to their skin complexion. It's a disease within our own community that needs to be cured because we have seen what happens to some of these people when society tries to make you feel like you are not good enough or not wanted or in worse cases considered not attractive or appealing at all.